You are sitting on the sofa, hand on your belly, and perhaps asking yourself: When will my baby finally arrive? The 42nd week of pregnancy feels like an eternity – and at the same time, like the last breath before the big leap. But what if these days are not just waiting time, but a precious opportunity to look back and realize how incredibly far you’ve come?

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What This Last Week Really Means

In the 42nd week of pregnancy, your baby is about 52 cm long and weighs around 3,600 g. It is now only growing minimally – it is ready to conquer the world. Your body has achieved incredible things in the past months, and even though the placenta is slowly starting to fall short of its full functions, you have given your all.

Many doctors recommend inducing labor this week if your baby hasn’t come on its own. But no matter whether your child arrives today, tomorrow, or after an induction: These days are a gift. A moment to breathe, reflect, and regain strength.

Lesson 1: Your Body Is Wiser Than You Thought

Do you remember those first weeks? The nausea, the fatigue, the changes you couldn’t control? Back then, you might have thought: How am I supposed to do this? But your body knew. It created an entire universe inside you – without instructions, without breaks.

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What You Have Learned:

  • Trust in Your Body: It sends signals when it needs rest or movement.
  • Patience with Processes: Not everything can be planned or sped up – and that’s okay.
  • Respect for Your Limits: You have learned to say no and yes to what is good for you.

This wisdom will help you in the postpartum period and parenthood. Your body is your ally – not your enemy.

Lesson 2: Vulnerability Is Not a Weakness, But a Strength

Pregnancy makes you vulnerable. You may have cried because someone stole your parking space. Or because you could no longer tie your shoes by yourself. You asked for help – perhaps for the first time in your life.

And do you know what? That was brave. Allowing vulnerability means being real. It means you’re strong enough not to have to carry everything alone.

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Moments That Have Taught You:

  • When you asked your partner to help you put on your socks
  • When you told your friend that you are afraid of giving birth
  • When you cried in the waiting room and the midwife just held you

These moments did not make you smaller – they made you more human, more accessible, and more loving. And that is exactly what your baby needs: a mom who is real.

Lesson 3: Plans Are Important – But Flexibility Is Gold

Maybe you had a detailed birth plan. Maybe you wanted a natural birth, a water birth, or a quiet birth. And maybe everything will turn out quite differently. The 42nd week of pregnancy teaches you: Life with a child is unpredictable.

You have learned that you can have ideas – but also need to let go. That sometimes the best plan is to have no plan at all. That you can improvise if necessary.

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Flexibility in Practice:

  • If labor needs to be induced, you are ready
  • If your baby is awake at night, you'll find a rhythm
  • If breastfeeding doesn't work out, you'll find another way

This lesson will accompany you through the early years. Children teach us to live in the moment – and you have already trained that during pregnancy.

Lesson 4: You Are Stronger Than You Ever Thought

42 weeks. Almost ten months. You have endured nausea, suffered back pain, and gone through sleepless nights. You have worked, loved, lived – with a growing person inside you. That’s no small feat.

Maybe you don’t feel strong right now. Perhaps you feel exhausted, impatient, overwhelmed. But look back: You have mastered every single day. You are here. You are ready.

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Proof of Your Strength:

  • You have fought through fears and kept going
  • You have respected your body, even when it felt strange
  • You have made decisions – for yourself and your baby
  • You have informed yourself, asked questions, raised your voice

This strength will carry you – through labor, through the first weeks, through the highs and lows of motherhood. You are strong. Not despite your pregnancy, but because of it.

Lesson 5: Love Begins Before You Meet

You have never seen your baby. Never held it in your arms. And yet, you already love it unconditionally. You have made decisions for this little being, changed, sacrificed – out of pure love.

This love, which is already so deep, will only grow. It will carry you through tough nights, through doubts and exhaustion. It is the foundation of everything that is to come.

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Moments of Love You Have Experienced:

  • The first heartbeat during the ultrasound
  • The first kicks that kept you awake at night
  • The feeling when your partner talks to your belly
  • The anticipation when you think about the first meeting

This love is real. It is strong. And it is the proof that you are already a wonderful mother – even though your baby is not yet here.

What Comes Next: Entering the Adventure with Wisdom

The 42nd week of pregnancy is not the end – it is the transition. Soon you will hold your baby in your arms. Soon everything will be different. But the lessons you have learned will stay with you:

  • Trust your body
  • Be vulnerable and real
  • Stay flexible and open
  • Acknowledge your strength
  • Love unconditionally

You have nurtured not only a baby in these 42 weeks – you have also re-acquainted yourself with yourself. You have grown, matured, and become stronger. And it is this version of you that will be a great mother.

Take a moment today. Write down what you have learned. Talk to your baby. Thank your body. And then – take a deep breath. Because the greatest adventure of your life is about to begin. And you are ready.